How To Save Your Marriage - What To Do?

Hy, Sebastian here,

This is my story how I saved my marriage and I'm writing this because i want to help other people and tell them that they are not alone.


If you are reading this then you probably have marriage problems and I had them too but I resolved them together with my wife.
When we said "Yes" on our wedding day we thought everything is good and we started a new life with our wife or husband. We did not think that something could go wrong some day didn't we?
But when that day comes here is what I have done. I stayed calm and just thought what will happen next. Marriage problem is very big problem and the main thing what not to do is: DO NOT GIVE UP!!! NEVER!!! Do not think everything is over now I do not know what will I do and such thing. Try to speak with your partner, try find a solution and if that doesn't work then find something that will help you like I did.

When my wife wanted to divorce with me I asked her why? She told me that she doesn't love me anymore. That was a very stupid answer because you can not stop loving someone just over night. I hope you agree with me.

When I realized that speaking with her doesn't work I searched for some help. And I found some help on Internet. I do not believe in such things but it helped me. Some of my friends that had marriage issues went to some consultants and they give you some advice how to improve and make your marriage better. I did not search for that kind of help because my opinion is that how can some other person know what is my problem and what do I feel. The only thing we did is that we went to some sessions with many of other people that have the same problem because it is good to hear that the other problems are much bigger then ours.

To resume all this. What do I want to say to you? To save your marriage you must have patience, be honest to your partner, you must believe in your marriage and have strength to carry on with this. I believe in love and every marriage problem can be solved. I hope you will try to do something with your issue and find a solution.